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Don’t Be That Donkey – Build Confidence, Self-Esteem, and Power

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Readers say this book “surprised me” and “was not what I expected.”

⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Readers say it “helped me reclaim my confidence and direction.”

Why do sincere, capable people still feel stuck, drained, or taken for granted?

This book explains why. Not with clichés or loud motivation, but by exposing the toxic patterns, manipulation, and silent power games most people never learn to recognize.

Modern life teaches you to adjust and survive.
It rarely teaches you how to handle
people, power, and pressure.

That missing knowledge is why confidence fades and control slips away.
This book gives you that knowledge.

DON’T BE THAT DONKEY
How to Break Free and Take Control of Life

Many readers describe it as:

  • “A crash course on how the world actually works.”

  • “Short but sharp.”

  • “Uncomfortable in the best way.”

  • “Finally, clarity.”

The “donkey” is the burden-bearer.
Always adjusting. Always carrying. Always complying.
While others quietly decide the direction.

This is not a motivational book.
As readers say,
“It doesn’t try to hype you. It makes you think differently.”

It’s a practical survival guide that blends psychology, strategy, real-life stories, and research to turn awareness into calm confidence and quiet power.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

  • spot manipulation, guilt-traps, and people-pleasing patterns

  • understand power dynamics without becoming aggressive or cold

  • build strong boundaries without guilt

  • stop self-sabotage you didn’t even realize you had

  • think clearly under pressure and act with control

The book is structured into four parts: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly, and The Balance.
Chapters are short and readable. Many readers say they finish one in a coffee break, yet keep thinking about it long after.

This book is for you if:

  • you feel drained, unheard, or undervalued

  • people cross your boundaries without resistance

  • you’re tired of adjusting while others stay comfortable

  • you want to be strong without becoming harsh or bitter

The goal is not domination.
The goal is
awareness, balance, and self-control.

Start with the free chapters.
If you see yourself in them, it’s time.

Don’t be the donkey everyone depends on.
Choose clarity. Choose confidence. Choose yourself.

Empower Your Journey

Transform burdens into strength and discover your voice with don’t be that donkey.

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A shelf filled with various books, featuring a prominent card in the center depicting a woman with her arms crossed above her head, adorned with necklaces and symbols. The card reads 'Inanna - Believe in yourself.'
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A hand holding a notebook or journal open to a page with handwritten notes and a motivational insert that says 'RADIATE self-love'. The page includes words and phrases related to self-love and personal growth. A blue and green woven bag is visible in the background.